Wat is our ultimate aim ? ?
People say it is name, fame, money, to own a company, do something for nation etc. Is any of these is our ultimate aim ? ? They are just milestones in our journey of life. Wat we actually need is a peaceful life. To be self satisfied with wat we had done. A life with caring family, friends & loved ones. A life which may have some tensions, some sad moments, but in those difficult times, friends shd be there to uplift us, to share our sorrows. We need to have an attitude tat take every difficulty as challenge and have courage to enjoy our efforts in overcoming those difficulties.
And then there are happy moments also, which always overweight those tough times. But the important thing is, in all such moments (happy/sad) our inner self should always be happy, satisfied. So, the ultimate aim is to live each and every moment of life to its fullest.
Is it really tat difficult to achieve this ? ? Is it tat difficult to forget the sad moments and always remember our every happy moments, sharing others happiness, it may include happiness of stranger. If we see a stranger celebrating his/her b'dayor any happiness, wishing him/her does not require much efforts, isn't ? ? We put lot of efforts to get name, fame, money, all other less important things in life. Can't we put small efforts for our ultimate goal. Whenever we c a person, remember his/her gud qualities, wat all he/she has done for u. Can't we give a small smile to him/her for all those things. Can't we just talked to him/her for few minutes. A sweet smile & hello can really do wonders. I remember a incident of my colllege days. I was depressed abt something, walking alone in the corridor. A guy (I know just as college mate) said hello with sweet smile as passed by me. I smiled (tat smile killed my depression). So, these small things when accumulated may change our life drastically.
Only these Small things can give us real feeling of happiness, a happy satisfied inner soul, tat can now climb all the high mountains of difficulties.
Wat more we need ....
People say it is name, fame, money, to own a company, do something for nation etc. Is any of these is our ultimate aim ? ? They are just milestones in our journey of life. Wat we actually need is a peaceful life. To be self satisfied with wat we had done. A life with caring family, friends & loved ones. A life which may have some tensions, some sad moments, but in those difficult times, friends shd be there to uplift us, to share our sorrows. We need to have an attitude tat take every difficulty as challenge and have courage to enjoy our efforts in overcoming those difficulties.
And then there are happy moments also, which always overweight those tough times. But the important thing is, in all such moments (happy/sad) our inner self should always be happy, satisfied. So, the ultimate aim is to live each and every moment of life to its fullest.
Is it really tat difficult to achieve this ? ? Is it tat difficult to forget the sad moments and always remember our every happy moments, sharing others happiness, it may include happiness of stranger. If we see a stranger celebrating his/her b'dayor any happiness, wishing him/her does not require much efforts, isn't ? ? We put lot of efforts to get name, fame, money, all other less important things in life. Can't we put small efforts for our ultimate goal. Whenever we c a person, remember his/her gud qualities, wat all he/she has done for u. Can't we give a small smile to him/her for all those things. Can't we just talked to him/her for few minutes. A sweet smile & hello can really do wonders. I remember a incident of my colllege days. I was depressed abt something, walking alone in the corridor. A guy (I know just as college mate) said hello with sweet smile as passed by me. I smiled (tat smile killed my depression). So, these small things when accumulated may change our life drastically.
Only these Small things can give us real feeling of happiness, a happy satisfied inner soul, tat can now climb all the high mountains of difficulties.
Wat more we need ....
how very true! why then is there this constant struggle everywhere to achieve name, fame and money? because man is selfish.. he wants to be different, important, superior.. not everyone can be happy enjoying the little joys in life got by doing little good things..
ReplyDeletebut then aren't these the people that drive the world too? people who dream big, who want to lead their own company, who want to make money with their ideas... probably its just a way of life... take any form of life, there seems to be the same pattern...
~just my thoughts on reading your blog! am happy to see you write publicly finally!
Sapna is now showing her another self which we had not known for last 2 years. Well written blog dear!
ReplyDeletekeep posting :)
meghana,
ReplyDeletetats true tat people who dream big actually runs the world. People who always listen to their heart are always happy. I do not mean people who achieve gr88 success are not happy, but if they achieve it for just name, fame and money and not for their own satisfaction, then tat success won't bring true innner happiness. Name, fame and money are not measures of happiness. I agree, to live life these are important, but in the race for success one should not forget about real joys in life...
kuhoo,
ReplyDeleteI just wanna to find a new timepass... tum logon ke bina bor ho gayi hoon [:(]